- SOCIAL ACTION -

Women have been working together for years to strive for political, economic and social equality. Women working for change have some common beliefs about making change and doing social action. These beliefs stem from a feminist perspective, and can be useful in grounding us in our social action work. Part of ending violence against women is promoting prevention and increasing awareness of the issue. Many good things can happen as a result of women working for social change. Individuals who participate in social action may learn about themselves; develop skills; feel good that they are doing something; and have fun working with other women.

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A definition (as it relates to women) from the Community Resource Centre of Goulbourn, Kanata & West Carleton, 1995:

“Social Action is any planned and public activity that creates an opportunity to change beliefs and practices of individuals and institutions in order to improve women’s political, economic and social position in society.”

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It is important to do social action because women still have a long way to go. The reality for women is that:
  • most poor people are women and children
  • women still earn less than men
  • women are still primarily responsible for childcare
  • women continue to be victims of sexual harassment and violence
  • women are under –represented in government and in positions of authority
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Examples of social action are:
  • education (e.g. lectures, workshops, displays, fundraisers)
  • developing coalitions (e.g. petitions, letter writing, lobbying, pamphlets, voter actions)
  • organizing people as consumers (e.g. group lobbying, boycott, court actions)
  • organizing people as workers (e.g. vigils, blockades, sit ins, marches)
  • mass movements of people (e.g. mass rallies, vigils, demonstrations, marches, walks)
  • forming alternative structures (e.g. withdrawal from social institutions, alternative research, setting up co-ops)
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It is important to take a good look at words and to choose our words carefully. Language is a powerful tool. Language shapes our beliefs and culture. Words can be used to make us feel accepted or excluded; to share about ourselves or to mask our experience; to help us be understood or to turn others against us. Words can have different meanings for different women, so it is important to commonly define the words we use (like feminism or social action) in our discussions so that we understand each other and so that we do not make assumptions that may cause harm.

When participating in social action, it is important to always be aware of SAFETY. Some safe social action guidelines include always working in pairs or groups and using police protection at marches and demonstrations. It is also wise to consider safety when choosing battles – when deciding whether or not to challenge or confront individuals or institutions.


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What are YOU doing to end violence against WOMEN?

AS A WOMEN OR MAN YOU COULD...
  • Examine your own attitudes and behaviour towards others.
  • Not laugh at women-hating jokes, racial slurs or insults that are discriminatory or sexist.
  • Stop believing stereotypes.
  • Resist and work to eliminate heterosexism.
  • Refuse to respond to aggression with aggression.
  • Learn how to resolve conflicts peacefully
  • Support equal pay for work of equal value.
  • Hire a woman for the job.
  • Stop denying that violence against women exists or that it's only "those women".
  • Never blame women for the violence in their lives.
  • Hold violent people accountable for their choices to perpetrate violence.
  • Encourage your friends and family with anger problems to seek professional help.
  • Take responsibility for your choices and actions.
  • Question the stereotypical gender roles portrayed at home, at school, at work or in the media.
  • Stand up against sexist behaviour and tolerance of violence, even as seen in sports.
  • Find out about support services offered in your community for abused women and those aimed at partners and men who use abuse.
  • Seek professional help if you recognize that you are violent; it is difficult to change aggressive behaviour without professional support.
  • Find out more about the problem of violence against women and abuse of power, and their consequences.
    How?
    • Read articles or books;
    • Listen to radio broadcasts;
    • Watch television documentaries on the subject;
    • Talk with someone who works in a women's shelter or Sexual Assault Crisis Centre;
    • Explore the internet; you could visit Status of Women Canada's web site (www.swc-cfc.gc.ca) and follow the links to other related sites.
IN YOUR FAMILY LIFE, YOU COULD...
  • Commit to non-violent problem-solving and discipline and learn how to follow through on that commitment.
  • Share with your partner in the management and control of all family finances.
  • Do you part in childcare and home maintenance without being asked.
  • Help children develop positive self-esteem by listening to them, respecting them, and offering them positive reinforcement and lots of love.
  • Help children learn to be responsible for their choices and actions and to accept the consequences.
  • Teach children that violence is an abuse of power and confidence.
  • Teach children that using physical force and insults is unacceptable in relationships.
  • Help children understand that there are peaceful ways to resolve conflict and manage their tempers.
  • Set a good example for children; follow your own advice.
AS A CONSUMER, YOU COULD...
  • Challenge the tolerance of violence in the media.
  • Boycott movies and other media that glorify violence, abuse women or depict them as sexual objects.
  • Purchase non-violent, non-sexist toys.
  • Stop buying products from advertisers who exploit women in their promotions.
IN YOUR COMMUNITY, YOU COULD...
  • Promote awareness on violence against women.
  • Urge teachers and administrators to support gender-aware violence prevention activities and make them core-curriculum.
  • Encourage your daughters and granddaughters to pursue all interests; not put girls down.
  • Help your community recognize that ending violence against women is a priority.
  • Ask your family doctor to display posters and pamphlets on violence against women.
  • Get a local men's service club to sponsor a community awareness session for men on violence issues.
  • Write a letter to the editor.
  • Talk about violence against women and equality in your place of worship.
  • Be a volunteer or donate money to a crisis centre or shelter for abused women.
  • Participate in a national or local campaign to fight violence against women or start a campaign of your own
  • Work with others to develop new resources to help abused women, their partners or abusive men to improve existing services.
  • Encourage your school board officials to integrate courses and programs that denounce sexism and sexual violence into their regular curriculum and other school activities, and also to include programs that promote the building of positive self-esteem and healthy relationships.
  • Hold a safety walking audit to determine what areas of your community require improved lighting and overall safety measures. Share your findings with the police and other community safety initiatives.
AS A MAN, YOU COULD...
  • Not be violent.
  • Give up your need for power and control.
  • Evaluate your own attitudes and how you treat women and girls.
  • Listen to women in your life and never minimize their feelings.
  • Attend community forums on violence against women.
  • Start a discussion group for men/boys at school, at work, among your friends, or in the community, to talk about subjects such as interpersoanal relationships, handling anger, masculinity, changing violent behaviour, etc.
  • Challenge any tolerance of violent or sexist behaviour.
  • Never purchase nor use pornography.
  • Challenge other men to become part of the solution.
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